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‘She didn’t get to be a grandma or see me get married’ • Asheville Watchdog

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avlwatchdog.org – JOHN BOYLE and ANDREW R. JONES – 2024-12-11 07:30:00

Asheville Watchdog is bringing you the stories behind the staggering loss of life from Helene, the children, parents, grandparents, multiple generations of a single family, all gone in one of the worst natural disasters to hit the mountains of western North Carolina. This is the 10th installment.  

Makayla Russell remembers her mom, Cathy Jo Blackburn Minish, as “really funny and outgoing” and who loved nothing more than having a bunch of cousins and nieces over to pile into her bed and watch movies.

“She was really big on family — that was her big thing,” Russell, 24, said of her mother. “That got her excited the most — being able to spend time with family. As long as she was around family, she was at her happiest.”

Minish, a homemaker and mother who lived in Marion, died from landslide injuries, including drowning, during Tropical Storm Helene, according to a death certificate.

Read previous installments of The Lives We Lost.

Born in Burke County in 1972 to Dianne Elizabeth Benge Minish and the late John Franklin Minish, Minish was 52. She is survived by her mother; her only child, Russell; and four siblings, according to her obituary.

Russell said her mom loved crafts, travel and trips to the beach in Florida or on the coast of North and South Carolina. 

“Cathy had an incredible sense of humor and will be remembered for her ability to bring laughter to all situations,” her obituary said. “She loved to shop, and Cathy was a gifted crafter. It brought her great joy to make all kinds of crafts particularly during Christmastime.”

Russell said this holiday season will be particularly tough to navigate. Russell was 23 when her mother died, and she never thought she’d have to inform her grandmother that her daughter had died.

“My great grandma lived to 94, so I was for sure that I’d have my mom for a long time,” Russell said. “And she didn’t get to be a grandma or see me get married or anything like that. So I’m having a really hard time with that.”

Russell, a care management support assistant at a local medical office, lives in Fairview, which is where Minish died. The family has not received details of how Minish died, Russell said.

Minish had traveled to Fairview to stay with her best friend since high school during the storm. 

Russell cherishes the many good memories she has of her mother.

“She just was full of life, always happy,” Russell said. “She just always found the good in everything. She tried not to let anybody see if she was worrying or having a hard time. She always wanted everybody to remember her happy and smiling and laughing. She was awesome.”

– John Boyle, Asheville Watchdog

Lula Jackson

Lula Jackson, 63, died at her Asheville home Sept. 27. Her death certificate lists chronic obstructive pulmonary disease as the primary cause of her death, with Tropical Storm Helene noted as a secondary cause.

Jackson had dealt with COPD for at least seven years, according to her death certificate.

Lula Jackson loved Worldwide Missionary Baptist, where she was a “faithful attendee,” part of the choir and part of the anniversary committee, her obituary said. // Watchdog photo by Andrew R. Jones

Her obituary said she loved her pastor and church, Worldwide Missionary Baptist, where she was a “faithful attendee,” part of the choir and part of the anniversary committee. 

“When she could not attend [church], her heart was always there,” the obituary said.

“Lula was preparing her song on Friday night, September 27, 2024 when hurricane Helene blew into Asheville and she ascended to her heavenly home,” the obituary said.

Jackson, 63, was the mother of two daughters, according to her obituary. She had at least two grandchildren, a brother and a sister, and a “host of nieces, nephews, other relatives and friends,” the obituary said.

Her sister and daughter said none of the family wanted to speak to the media. “It’s too soon,” her daughter Nichole Mayfield said when reached by phone.

Jackson graduated from Asheville High School in 1979, according to her obituary. “She was active in the Cougar band and excelled as the drum majorette. Lula loved music and regularly performed in talent competitions,” her obituary said. 

She had a music scholarship to Mars Hill University, but decided to start a family instead, the obituary said. 

“It is with a heavy heart and fighting tears I must unfortunately inform you all of the passing of my first wife Lula Jackson (Nance),” a Facebook account belonging to Rojam Mayfield posted Oct. 2. “There is never a good time for God to call a loved one home but this is… particularly hard [due] to the tragic situation with hurricane [Helene]. … Lula we loved you, God loved you more. No more pain. I’ll see you on the other shore.”

Asheville Watchdog could not reach Rojam Mayfield. 

Nichole Mayfield, Jackson’s daughter, posted a slideshow video showing her dad in her youth and adulthood. He is smiling in each image, sitting on a couch or standing with family, all accompanied by the song “Still Here,” by R&B artist Anthony Q.

On his Facebook account, Rojam Mayfield commented on the video:

“Lula Jackson is looking down smiling.” 

– Andrew R. Jones, Asheville Watchdog

Gabriel Gonzalez

Gabriel Gonzalez had gone to work in driving rain at the Ingles distribution center near the Swannanoa River when floodwaters swept him away, according to the Catholic News Herald. Gonzalez’ co-workers called him “the happy one,” the article said, because he was always singing as he loaded tractor-trailers for the regional grocery store chain.

Gonzalez was an Ingles employee who worked in truck loading, according to his death certificate.

He was a Catholic and a mass for his death was celebrated Oct. 25 St. Eugene Catholic Church in Asheville, according to his obituary. 

According to his death certificate, the 52-year-old died as a result of landslide injuries. His body was found on U.S. Highway 70 in Swannanoa, next to the Swannanoa River.

The story includes a picture of Gonzalez in front of his red Jeep, standing beside best friend Ulises Garcia, a friend from Swannanoa.

Gonzalez will be laid to rest in his home country of El Salvador, his obituary said.

– Andrew R. Jones, Asheville Watchdog

John David Keretz 

John David Keretz, 69, a financial planner who lived in Fairview, drowned during Helene, according to a death certificate. Keretz’s body was found Oct. 1 near Echo Lake about a mile from his home.

Asheville Watchdog made numerous efforts to reach family members but did not hear back by deadline. The funeral home that handled arrangements said no obituary for Keretz was published.

Keretz was an armed services veteran and lived in Fairview, according to his death certificate. He is survived by his spouse, Laurie Ninness Keretz, according to the document.

– John Boyle, Asheville Watchdog

Asheville Watchdog is a nonprofit news team producing stories that matter to Asheville and Buncombe County. John Boyle has been covering Asheville and surrounding communities since the 20th century. You can reach him at (828) 337-0941, or via email at jboyle@avlwatchdog.org.  Andrew R. Jones is a Watchdog investigative reporter. Email arjones@avlwatchdog.org.The Watchdog’s local reporting during this crisis is made possible by donations from the community. To show your support for this vital public service go to avlwatchdog.org/support-our-publication/.

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Hundreds gather to remember 17-year-old killed in Raleigh

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SUMMARY: Hundreds gathered at Chavis Park to remember 17-year-old Clarence Kelly, a Southeast Raleigh High School student who was tragically killed by a gunshot. Family, friends, and classmates honored Clarence’s love for dancing and basketball while advocating for change to prevent future violence. His mother, devastated by his loss, emphasized the importance of supporting youth. Community leaders also addressed mental health, especially following the recent suicide of Durham School of the Arts student Gabby Ortega. As Raleigh Police investigate Clarence’s death, they believe it was accidental and not the result of foul play. Friends pledged to fight for his legacy.

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19-year-old killed in Clayton Blvd crash; driver faces DWI charges

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SUMMARY: A tragic crash on Clayton Boulevard resulted in the death of a 19-year-old, with driver Jay Guadalupe Moreno Neas, 48, facing DWI charges. Police report that Neas had a blood alcohol content of .17, over twice the legal limit. He ran a stoplight, striking the victim’s car. Charged with felony death by motor vehicle, DWI, and other offenses, Neas’s actions serve as a reminder of the dangers of drunk driving, which accounts for a significant number of traffic fatalities. In response, North Carolina has introduced House Bill 400, aiming to impose stricter penalties on impaired drivers. Neas is scheduled to return to court on April 3rd.

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A 48-year-old man was charged with driving with no license and DWI in a “completely preventable” deadly crash.

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Catering By Design owner shares inspiring story

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SUMMARY: Philip Lynn, owner of Catering By Design, has achieved remarkable success, winning the Voter’s Choice Awards for Best Caterer, Employer of the Year, and Best Sweet Tea. With nearly 25 years in business, Lynn’s journey began in his family’s Chinese restaurant. After obtaining a master’s in math and computer science, he worked in corporate roles before transitioning to catering to support his father after his mother’s passing. Emphasizing employee retention through creative freedom and team building, Catering By Design thrives on consistency and strong customer connections. The restaurant’s offerings include dishes like short ribs, rolls, chicken salad croissants, and cheesecake.

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Phillip Lin, the owner of Catering By Design, won Boss of the Year, while his business took home Employer of the Year, Caterer of the Year and Best Sweet Tea.

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